Stop

jill believed that you are ALWAYS training a horse.

so, she was surprised when he called her on letting him stop.
"when?" she wanted to know, because there were many times when she knew he was about to stop, and so told him to stop, thinking this was at least a constructive alternative to spinning. She said "I considered standing our ground an improvement from the turning and running away!"

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"don't worry dad, " she'd said earlier. kissing his cheek and departing the hospital, "i always remember that the #1 rule is DON'T fall off. but, failing that, i always tell someone where i'll be going and when i'll be back, so if anything goes wrong, people will know."

thinking she was going to make a sign of emergency contact numbers for the stall door.